Lube 101

Lube is one of the most important things (the most important being protection of all sorts of course) to have in your "drawer;" you know the one by your bed with all your sexual goodies in it. It can be your best friend, but shopping for it can be overwhelming. There are dozens of options out there, and it can be hard to know what you're looking for. Here's a breakdown of the pros and cons of

Anal play: Fingering

So.... We've officially started, I think I just crossed the line away from vanilla sex for the first time since starting this blog. It was only a matter of time, I pride myself on being one kinky bitch, but I just want to make sure you're all prepared. Are you buckled in? Because it's going to be a fun ride. Personally, anal (which, by the by, is one of my least favorite words in the english

Abstinence: The best sex you ever had

Don't worry, don't freak out. I'm not changing my tune. I'm still the same sex lovin' girl you've come to expect. And lord knows I'm not really one to talk about abstinence, but the fact is I wanted to put some ideas out there before moving on to the up coming how to blogs on penetrative sex. I think that abstinence as a concept and especially as a school curriculum is a little (or a lot)

Eating out: A diner's guide

Tehe! Do you love that title? I'm totally proud of it. It makes me giggle, and as I'm trying to impart to all my loving readers out there (or at least the vast audience of loving readers that I write to in my head) sex is fun! Don't take it, or yourself too seriously. So... on to the good stuff. We're here to talk about eating pussy. Something that takes a bit of finesse, a lot of practice, and a

Spicing it up: Sensation play

Now, every so often, along with kick ass general sex tips and sex related reviews, I'm going to talk about things slightly outside of vanilla. I'm a big advocate of trying everything you're comfortable with, and providing anyone who wants to try any information they need to make themselves comfortable. These are going to be the "spice it up series." I'm starting out pretty basic, and as time goes

Blowjobs

Blowjobs.... Now we're moving into territory that is much more comfortable for me. I have an oral fixation. I like to eat, I like to chew gum, suck on mints, I pretty much hate having an empty mouth, something my sexual partners generally benefit from. I'm what's called a top, which means I find getting other people off more satisfying then getting off. (weird I know, but yes we exist I swear),

PSA: Pussy love

Women notoriously hate their own pussies. It's a problem. They're self conscious and inhibited when it comes to being seen, or god forbid being gone down on. This is RIDICULOUS, but understandable. I used to be one of those women myself. If it's not obvious already, I've gotten over it. I'm going to try to keep this entry brief, but it's a subject close to my heart. For my senior thesis, I wrote

Fingering

Ok, so we've covered the basics of handjobs, I feel like you all know what's next, Pussy!!!! But first a note on terminology. I'm all for using clinical terms and such, but I personally just don't like the words vulva and vagina, they're too clinical for me. There's no fun in saying the word vagina. I just reminds me of those horrible high school health classes in which the only thing a girl's